Showing posts with label unanswered prayer. Show all posts
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Tuesday, October 16, 2018

Spiritual Formation (Prayer Life Part 6 Unanswered) Final


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But now, O Lord, You are our Father,
We are the clay, and You our potter;
And all of us are the work of Your hand. (Holy Bible: New American Standard Bible, Isaiah 64:8)

In the United States, you can go to a bank or other lending institution and apply for a loan.  If the institution rejects your application, they are required to give some indication as to why they rejected your application.  God on the other hand, is not required to give any reason why one of your prayer requests was denied.  How many parents in world history have said no to something their child has asked for?  If you’re a parent, have you always given a full and detailed reason to your child?  If you’re a child or have been a child and had a parent deny your requests, did you always understand why?  Moreover, if they did explain why, were you always satisfied with their answers?

            As was pointed out in Part 3, one of the most common illustrations of our relationship with God found in scripture is the father-child relationship.  In fact, in the sermon on the mount, Jesus uses this illustration regarding prayer, “…[W]hat man is there among you who, when his son asks for a loaf, will give him a stone? … If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give what is good to those who ask Him”(Matthew 7:9 & 11 NASB).  Jesus’ words paint a picture of God as a good and loving Father who wants to provide for His children.  So, again, why does it seem that some prayers go unanswered?

            We’ve seen from Biblical passages, that prayers may be unanswered because we pray with wrong motives.  Also, sins and lack of repentance separates us from God, so much so, He’s even said that He won’t listen to some people’s prayers.  Some passages portray prayer as a struggle and like other spiritual disciplines (fasting, scriptural meditation, sitting quietly with God, etc.) there is purpose in the struggle.  Moreover, prayer is not an Aladdin’s lamp and God is not a genie just waiting for wish requests.  In His Gethsemane prayers, Jesus submitted His requests to the will of God; that is, He did not demand His own way, but accepted the will of His Father.  From this, we should also see that our prayers should always be submitted to the will of God.

            Therefore, perhaps, we experience unfruitfulness in our prayers for one or more of these reasons.  Examining our prayers based on scripture is one way for us to submit our minds, our desires and our lives to God.  If Spiritual Formation (Christ being formed in us) is our goal, then as difficult as it may be, unanswered prayers can be how God is reaching into our inner selves.  Keep praying.  Examine your prayers in the light of scriptures.  Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.*


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1995. Holy Bible: New American Standard Bible. LaHabra: The Lockman Foundation.

* There are other scriptures that we did not cover, such as 1 Pet. 3:7 that suggests the way a man treats his wife may hinder his prayers.  And Daniel 10:12-14, where something, likely a satanic force impeded the response to Daniel's prayers.  Therefore, we must not forget, we have an enemy of our souls, who is not flesh and blood and his goal is the kill, steal and destroy (John 10:10).

Monday, October 8, 2018

Spiritual Formation (Prayer Life Part 5 Unanswered)

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[Jesus said] “Therefore I say to you, all things for which you pray and ask, believe that you have received them, and they will be granted you” (Holy Bible: New American Standard Bible, Mark 11:24)


          Some passages in the New Testament, like the one cited above, can make prayer sound like carte blanche; however, the context of this passage explains its meaning.  Jesus makes this statement on the Tuesday morning after the Triumphal Entry.  On Monday morning, Jesus and the disciples were walking from Bethany to Jerusalem and on the way, Jesus cursed a fig tree that He found to be without fruit.  When they arrived in Jerusalem, Jesus saw the corruption of the religious system and in reaction, He drove out the people selling animals inside the temple.  In His zeal, He shouted passages from the prophets, saying that the temple was meant to be a ministry to all the nations, but the ruling religious system had changed it into a den of robbers.  It is the next day, when Jesus and the disciples are making the journey again, that Peter notices the fig tree had withered.

           These events have led to this scene, and Jesus’s statement is made in that context.  The religious system, that had been instituted by God, had failed to reach out to the nations.  John the Baptist had cried out to Israel to make ready the path of the Lord, fill in the ravines and lower the hills and mountains (Luke 3:4 & 5).  The religious system had become a mountain in the path of the Lord.  Because of that, Jesus tells the disciples that by prayer, mountains can be moved.  The disciples, 12 men from the middle of nowhere, with no political connections and no money, cannot undo the religious system.  It’s possible that 11 of the men Jesus is talking to are under 20 years old [only Jesus and Peter paid the temple tax in Matthew 17:27] and the Pharisees/Sadducees have been ruling in second-temple Judaism since late Hasmonean period.  In other words, this mountain is well established, and the disciples are nobodies, with no power to move a mountain themselves.

           In that context, Jesus is telling them that prayer can move mountains standing in God’s way.  This mountain needed to be moved.  It was blocking the Abrahamic promise of blessing to all nations (Genesis 12:3c).  Therefore, prayers offered in accordance with God’s purposes can be prayed with confidence[1].  This understanding is in harmony with John’s explanation, “This is the confidence which we have before Him, that, if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us.  And if we know that He hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests which we have asked from Him” (Holy Bible: New American Standard Bible, 1 John 5:14-15).

Growth through unanswered prayers 



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[1] Mark 11:25-26 goes on to discuss a person’s prayer and their relationship to forgiving others.

Thursday, October 4, 2018

Spiritual Formation (Prayer Life Part 4 Unanswered)


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Epaphras, who is one of your number, a bondslave of Jesus Christ, sends you his greetings, always laboring earnestly for you in his prayers, that you may stand perfect and fully assured in all the will of God. (Holy Bible: New American Standard Bible, Colossians 4:12) [emphases added]

         For as secular as our society has become, in the public arena we may still hear from time to time someone make a statement like, “Our prayers go out to …” or “Our thoughts and prayers are with …”.  Yesterday during a televised sporting event, the score was tied and the camera found one fan kissing something on his necklace, and if you had read his lips, he was praying for his team to score.  Have you ever wondered if the person who said, “Our thoughts and prayers are with the victims,” actually prayed in any tangible way, or if that phrase is just our cliché when there’s nothing else to say?  Some ancient thought expressed in the Mishnah (part of the Jewish Talmud) considered it trivial to pray for birds (Zahavy, Kerakhot 5:3). How much more then for sporting events?  If these are accurate pictures of prayer in our public arena, how much has this influenced our perspectives on prayer?


         In the above-cited passage from Paul, the word he uses translated laboring earnestly is the same word from which we get our English word agonize.  Paul’s companion Epaphras is said to agonize in his prayer for his friends.  Although people who have developed a deep prayer life may be able to relate to this idea, if we were to do a word association exercise, is agonize the first word that comes to your mind when you hear the word prayer?  Perhaps you’ll find it interesting that in Luke, this same word, translated strive, is used by Jesus to tell His followers to enter in the narrow gate (13:24).  In that context, we can see a dichotomy between the path that leads to destruction and the other that leads to life.

          How then do we understand striving to enter by the narrow gate?  Why is the broad road to destruction so appealing?  By exploring those questions, do you see how prayer can be a struggle?  In considering this, we are also reminded how challenges make us better.  Therefore, this earnest labor in our unanswered prayers can be the character-building struggle we need in our spiritual development.  If prayer is as laissez-faire as in the examples highlighted at the beginning of this blog, what kind of character development would be possible?  On the other hand, when we engage in prayer as in wrestling, working, or striving, then we enter into the mystery that is our communication with God.  Perhaps this is why in some cases we experience unanswered prayers.

Did Jesus give carte blanche to prayers?

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Works Cited

1995. Holy Bible: New American Standard Bible. LaHabra: The Lockman Foundation.
Zahavy, Tzvee. 1987. The Mishnaic Law of Blessings and Prayers: Tractate Berakhot. Scholars Press.


Monday, September 24, 2018

Spiritual Formation (Prayer Life Part 3 Unanswered)

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“So when you spread out your hands in prayer, I will hide My eyes from you; Yes, even though you multiply prayers, I will not listen. Your hands are covered with blood. (Isaiah 1:15)

Therefore thus says the Lord, “Behold I am bringing disaster on them which they will not be able to escape; though they will cry to Me, yet I will not listen to them. (Jeremiah 11:11)

            Above are quotes from two of the major prophets[1] where the God of Israel specifically says that although people pray to Him, He will not listen.  During Isaiah’s time, he continually called the Southern Kingdom of Judah to repentance, to forsake the false gods that people where worshiping and to return to faithfulness to the Mosaic covenant.  And although there were some instances of revival between Isaiah’s time and Jeremiah’s time, the nation still followed other gods and broke the covenant with the God of Israel.  Sins and infidelity disconnect people from God.

            One Proverb of Solomon says that God is not with the wicked or lawless and that their prayers He will not listen to (15:29).  These passages seem to express that unconfessed sins and an unrepentant attitude keep God from listening to prayer.  Judge for yourself: two of the most common metaphors in scripture for the relationship between God and His people are the marriage relationship and a father and child relationship (Is. 45:5, Revelation 21:2, and Deuteronomy 32:6, Ephesians 4:6).  Imagine a father/child relationship where the children never obey their father.  Imagine a marital relationship where one spouse is always unfaithful to the other.  These images are how God describes the people throughout the prophets (Is. 1:21, Jer. 3:9).  Moreover, understand the Biblical imagery of the unfaithful one; they commit adultery and then pretend that they have done nothing wrong (Prov. 30:20).  Which separates more, the actual act of adultery or having no guilt or repentance after?  So, consider if an unanswered prayer goes unanswered due to unconfessed or unrepented sins.  God is merciful and ready to forgive (1 John 1:9).  But remember how Satan was described when under the disguise of a snake, he was called crafty, this could be because he is crafty with how sins can snare and trap us.  We’ve already explored other reasons that prayers go unanswered, and next week we have more to explore, but this area of a follower’s life should be examined if their prayer life seems unfruitful.

Struggling in prayer


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[1] Isaiah, Jeremiah, Lamentations, Ezekiel and often Daniel are considered the major prophets because of the amount they wrote and not because they are more important than the other twelve.

Monday, September 17, 2018

Spiritual Formation (Prayer Life Part 2 Unanswered)

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It's been forty days and forty nights
Down the road of many trials
And I pray it's only for a season
'Cause in the wilderness and in the flood
You're the one I'm thinking of
And I know You've brought me for a reason (Third Day 2003)


[Jesus] fell on His face and prayed, saying, “My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; yet not as I will, but as You will.” (Holy Bible: New American Standard Bible, Matthew 26:39)


            The film The Passion of the Christ starts with Jesus praying in the Garden of Gethsemane, his face drenched with sweat as He prays.  Depending on how the synoptic gospels (Matt, Mark & Luke) are harmonized, Jesus has predicted His death and resurrection at least three times before the Gethsemane episode [First M16:21-26, M8:31-37, L9:22-25; second M17:22-23, M9:30-32, L9:43b-45, third M20:17-19, M10:32-34, L18:31-34].  Despite this, we are confronted with an emotional and vulnerable Jesus praying in the garden.  One could get lost in the mystery of the incarnation; but one thing is clear, God the Son is pouring out His heart before God the Father.  Theologians have debated what the cup is; is it the cross and its pain, the separation and isolation, both of these things and more? Whatever it is, one thing is absolutely clear: Jesus wants this “cup” to pass from Him without drinking it.  Yet, His prayer does not end with His want, but with His submission.  “… not as I will, but as You [Father] will.”

            Stop.  Wait.  Don’t go past this event too quickly.  Jesus, the Jesus that healed the blind, the sick, and the lame.  Jesus, the Jesus that turned water into wine, walked on the sea and drove out demons by His words.  Jesus, the Jesus that withstood all the tests and tempting of Satan himself in the wilderness and won.  This Jesus, who knows the Father and has seen the Father and could at once call 60,000 angelic beings to His will (Matt. 26:53), ends His prayer by submitting to the Father’s will.

            This cannot be missed; the Son knew His mission.  He said, “… I do not seek My own will, but the will of Him who sent Me” (John 5:30 NASB).  Therefore, His prayer in Gethsemane follows this pattern.  However, remember what was pointed out above.  Despite having predicted His resurrection, He is praying that the “cup” could pass Him by.  The Gethsemane episode is filled with conflict and we see Jesus in turmoil.  We know how the story goes; but it does not lessen the tension that happened in the garden.  The Son is pleading with the Father, He is praying, “Is it possible that there could be a plan B?”  However, the Son accepts the will of the Father and submits.

            Sometimes it’s good to be reminded of purpose.  The purpose of Spiritual Formation is to allow Christ to be formed within us (Galatians 4:19).  Concerning this Gethsemane episode see what Paul writes:
Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus, who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men. Being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. (Philippians 2:5-8 NASB).

This then is our example for our prayers.

Prayers hindered by sins

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1995. Holy Bible: New American Standard Bible. LaHabra: The Lockman Foundation.
2003."40 Days." Come Together.


Monday, September 10, 2018

Spiritual Formation (Prayer Life Part 1 Unanswered)

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You ask and do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it on your pleasures. (Holy Bible: New American Standard Bible, James 4:3)

You say God give me a choice, you say Lord I say, Christ,
I don't believe in Peter Pan, Frankenstein or Superman (Queen 1978)


            How has prayer been explained to you?  There is a scene in the movie Europa Europa, in a Soviet orphanage, the communists intend to prove to the kids that God does not exist (Hofschneider 1990).  They tell the kids to pray to God for candy, and no candy comes.  However, they then drop candy on the kids and tell them the candy is from Stalin.  Is this a good explanation of prayer?  Asking God for things you want and then He gives you what you asked for?  In an argument form it would look like this:

            p1. If God exists, you can make requests to him.
            p2. If you make requests, he is obligated to fulfill your request.
            p3. A request unfulfilled means he does not exist.
            c. Prayer requests go unfulfilled; therefore, God does not exist.

However, as can be seen in the above passage from the book of James, within the Biblical religion, God is not obligated to fulfill certain requests.  Therefore, from a Biblical perspective, p.2 is a false dilemma.  Since p.2 can be falsified, unfulfilled prayer requests are insufficient in disproving the existence of God.  Moreover, this explanation of prayer also displays an inadequate understanding of the subject.

            Many of us begin to learn about God at a young age, the same time we are exposed to stories about Peter Pan, Frankenstein, and Superman.  Many people think there is even a verse that extols child like faith; however, in context, Jesus is talking about giving up ambitions for power in Matthew 18.  Paul, on the other hand, instructs Christians to become mature in their thinking (1 Cor. 14:20).  Therefore, how can we understand unfulfilled prayers?


            Again, James gives one reason that prayers may go unfulfilled, that the request is made with selfish motives and for only the purpose of pleasures.  Are Jesus’ followers to resemble Him or should they resemble Veruca Salt?  She was that spoiled little girl that following her own desires, fell down the garbage shoot in Willy Wonka’s Chocolate Factory (Cole 1971).  Selfish motives are only one Biblical explanation for unfulfilled prayer requests, and perhaps many of us can call mind to requests that were not selfish but were unfulfilled.  What do we do with those?  That gives us a topic for further exploration next week.

Jesus's unfulfilled prayer

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1971. Willy Wonka & the Chocolate Factory. Directed by Mel Stuart. Performed by Julie Dawn Cole.
1990. Europa Europa. Directed by Agnieszka Holland. Performed by Marco Hofschneider.
1995. Holy Bible: New American Standard Bible. LaHabra: The Lockman Foundation.
Queen. 1978. "Bicycle Race." Jazz. Comp. Freddie Mercury.

Wednesday, September 5, 2018

Spiritual Formation (Prayer Life Introduction)

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“When you pray…”  Matthew 6:9 [emphases added]

… devoted to prayer…” (Rom. 12:12)

Stop and think about prayer.  How would you define prayer or how would you explain praying?  In the above passage from Matthew, Jesus said, “When you pray,” which seems to imply that prayer is a part of the Christian walk.  Moreover, Paul instructed Roman Christians to be devoted to prayer.  It bears repeating that this blog is not intended to be a guilt trip; however, like going to the doctor, it is best, to be honest about your diet, exercise level, and other activities that may affect your health.  Therefore, ask yourself and answer only yourself, how is your prayer life?  Does “devoted to prayer” describe you?

Years ago, there was a movie, a line of Union troops and Confederate troops were in a stalemate.  Near the battlefield was a hill and on top were commanders of the Union army.  From their position, they could view the entire battlefield, something that was impossible from behind each sides line.  Imagine if one side had today’s technology, such as cell phones and Bluetooth earpieces.  The commanders could speak directly to the troops and tell them what they see, and the soldiers could reply.  It’s important to remember that we are in a battle here on earth, though it is not against other people (Eph. 6:12).  However, we genuinely have an enemy (John 10:10), and he does seek to make you ineffective or attack you (1 Pet. 5:8).  Therefore, using the battlefield and communication, as an illustration, is an appropriate way to think about prayer.

Going back to your answer above, how is your prayer life?  If you can honestly say, it’s great, nothing could be better; then perhaps this series is not for you.  However, if your prayer life is not in the shape you’d like it to be in, then this could be a very fitting series.  What is one of the greatest hindrances to a vibrant and active prayer life?  Could it be, prayers that go unanswered?

Before going further, let us be honest.  To say that, “All prayers are answered, but perhaps God said no or wait,” is at best a pious attempt to explain unanswered prayers and at worst is skirting the issue.  Reality is, sometimes we’ve prayed for people to get better and they’ve died.  We’ve prayed for one thing, and the opposite has happened.  Perhaps the helpless optimist tells us, we pray for God to heal them and now they are at peace and healed; however, you must admit, sounds more like sleight of hand, than actually answered prayers.

Therefore, we are now going to press on and look for a sufficient answer to why our prayers go unanswered.  Join us.

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